How One Man Found Happiness After Being Fired

How One Man Found Happiness After Being Firedalexanderplatz Korchinski got firedand it was the best thing that ever happened to him. Of course he wasnt all that happy in the beginning, but with hindsight, he came to see that it wasnt entirely without its benefits. Alex first told his story on his website, alexgivesup.com, and later it was reprinted in The Huffington Post.So, how did it happen? The company Alex worked for needed a Director of Growth. In an ironic twist of fate, Alex helped grow the company to the point where it no longer needed him, and he was shown the door. Now, youre asking, why was this such a good thing?Its About PerspectiveAccording to Alex, getting fired was a good thing because he gained a great deal of valuable perspective. He came to understand that he was expendable. His CEO had told him We need specialists instead of generalists, and Alex saw how that made sense. He was good at many things, but was I the best at any one of them? No. Thats a tough pill to s wallow, but next time, Alex plans on being a master in his job.Its About RelationshipsAlex admits to being guilty of neglecting his friends for the sake of late nights at work. After being fired, he started calling around, and he was absolutely amazedand even humbledby how many people wanted to help him. They offered advice, made introductions, and just offered sympathy. As Alex says, Jobs come from people. Not the internet. Not job boards. And if nothing else, whens the last time you grabbed a consolatory beer with a Craigslist post? Next time around, hell probably make time for his relationships.Its About OvercomingThis was actually Alexs second firing. The first time around, he started his own companybecause he felt an overwhelming need to prove that the people whod fired him were wrong. He wanted them to feel that theyd made a terrible mistake. Of course they didnt react that way, but Alex felt, after every achievement, like Reggie Miller raining 3s in Spike Lees weasel-y face. Doesnt that sound empowering? The point is, that as a result of his first firing, Alex learned that there was greener grass on the other side of the fence, and he knew hed find it following his second firing.Its not easy embracing being fired, at least not with the apparent delight it gave Alex Korchinski. This is probably one of the most amazing stories of making lemonade when life hands you lemonsand maintaining a positive outlookthat Ive ever heard. I hope its given you some inspiration if youre dealing with having been fired.

This Working Moms Strategy for Tackling Busy Work Days and Self-Care Will Inspire You

This Working Moms Strategy for Tackling Busy Work Days and Self-Care Will Inspire You As an Application Engineering Specialist at 3M, Bridgette Shannon says every day at work is different. But that doesnt scare zu sich at all. As a mom of three and an avid gym-goer, Shannon is used to dealing with the twists and turns of life by carefully grouping her priorities, incorporating lots of understanding and tapping into 3Ms flexible working culture. Learn More about 3Ms Talent Community. The mom of three shared how she juggles busy mornings and her kids sports games and how 3M has rckendeckunged her in finding her groove. Then, she shared her best piece of advice for new moms. It boils down to something every woman should hear Dont be so hard on yourself.How long have you been in your current role, and what were you doing previously? I have been in my current role for almost two years. Previously, I was in a product development role, working with abrasives and minerals like I am today. N ow, Im working mora in product commercialization and customer engagement. Whats your pre-work morning routine like? Craziness I get myself up first and get myself together before the kids wake up. I have three kids, and the younger two are always challenging because they dont want to get up. Once I finally get them out of bed, I get them dressed and, on a good day, we eat breakfast together. My husband usually prepares breakfast, but sometimes my oldest, DJ, will get the younger twos breakfast ready, which is a huge help. I always have a variety of different breakfast options on hand because if were running late, its grab and go. While we get ready, we talk about what the kids have going on at school that day and review anything they need to go over. Sometimes Im on a phone call during all this. But 3M is good about knowing early morning meetings can be noisy with kids. Why do you think your company is a particularly great place to be a working mom? Thats the 3M culture. Flexibility is implemented and accepted by all, and it really does help. I know of cases where companies try to implement flexibility but there is resistance from certain groups but Ive never seen that at 3M. Its such a family environment.How do you feel like your job has complemented your function as a parent? The nature of the job ?every day is a different day in my role. Because Im working with customers, there is so much flexibility in my day. I tend to group together my priorities at work and at home, which allows me to have a mora holistic view of everything I need to get done. My responsibilities go beyond 9-5, but thats what having a flexible work schedule is all about. How has your role as a mom made you a better employee? Being a mom really has helped me be a better employee. I have more patience and am a little bit more understanding and open-minded. Seeing that all my kids are different in their personalities and the way they operate gives me sympathy for others. Im able to be mor e compassionate because of it. Whats your go-to stress-relief activity or routine? Exercise. I just finished up boxing and swimming classes, so now I want to start a workout schedule where I can swim and do yoga. I try to mix it up and do different things on different days. If Im too busy to work out, I like to have quiet time and drink a cup of coffee or tea and think. Or Ill listen to music or call a friend to talk. What kinds of boundaries do you follow (if any) to separate work and family time? I try to be there for all my kids experiences. If my kid has a game, I block my calendar to be there. I really put them first. Even though Im a working mom, theyre loved, and I want to show that Ill be there for them. What are you especially good at as a mom? What about at work? I think Im good at making my kids and my coworkers feel valued. I want my kids to know Im here to support them. Same thing at work Im here to support my coworkers and to help 3M be successful. My kids and coworker s both know they can depend on me. Whats your 1 tip for new moms who are navigating the delicate balance of working and mothering? Being a working mom is hard but rewarding. It takes a village to make it work. It really does. Dont try to do it alone. Be open to letting others help you, even with the little things like another parent offering to take your child home after a game. Thats the only way to make it work. What do you love most about your company? The technology. 3M is a big company and theres so much to learn. I love to learn, so knowing theres always an opportunity to do that at 3M is a huge benefit as an employee. Watch to learn more about Bridgette and her work at 3M --Fairygodboss is proud to partner with 3M.Learn more about 3Ms talent community